#237 - Chris Voss - How To Negotiate Like An FBI Agent
Modern Wisdom
2020/10/26
#237 - Chris Voss - How To Negotiate Like An FBI Agent
#237 - Chris Voss - How To Negotiate Like An FBI Agent

Modern Wisdom
2020/10/26
Shownote
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Chris Voss is the Ex Lead International Kidnapping Negotiator for the FBI, a CEO & author.
Chris is someone who has negotiated under the highest imaginable pressure with kidnappers, bank robbers and terrorists.
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Highlights
Highlights
Former FBI lead kidnapping negotiator Chris Voss shares insights from his high-stakes career, revealing that the true goal of negotiation is building better relationships, not winning. He explains how to use specific communication techniques to de-escalate conflict, build rapport, and achieve collaborative outcomes.
Chapters
Chapters
Why the Best Negotiators Don't Try to 'Win'
00:00Are You a Fighter, a Fleer, or a Friend? Understanding Your Negotiation Style
05:45The Magic of 'No' and How to Use a Calm Voice to Defuse Any Argument
21:48The Two Words That Can Drop a Ransom from $10 Million to Zero
55:54Transcript
Transcript
Chris Voss: The guy on the other side is a sociopathic dude. He literally says, that's right. When we go into full summary. I don't know how long it took to do the full summary, but it took a while. It seemed excruciating on our end. A terrorist sociopath ...