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Esther Perel: Is your relationship “normal”?

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Dua asks beloved psychotherapist and podcaster Esther Perel all her burning questions (and some of yours, too!) about sex and dating, communication breakdowns in couples and how to fix them, how to keep curiosity alive in a partnership, and so, so much mor...

Highlights

In this episode, Dua Lipa sits down with renowned psychotherapist and podcast host Esther Perel to explore the complexities of modern relationships. They move beyond surface-level advice to discuss the deeper dynamics of intimacy, communication, and the evolving definitions of partnership, offering practical wisdom for anyone navigating love and connection.
03:55
You cannot want something more than the person themselves
10:01
Excitement often stems from the unknown
19:30
Monogamy was an economic system, not about love or sex.
32:10
Playful curiosity beats defaulting to screens.
34:52
Happiness has become a mandate, not an option.

Chapters

The Art of Helping: Why You Can't Want It More Than They Do
00:00
Ditching the Checklist: How Curiosity and Uncertainty Keep Love Alive
07:00
Beyond the Argument: Uncovering the Real Issues of Power and Trust
13:06
Rethinking Monogamy: From Paternity to Modern Exclusivity and Beyond
22:47
The Happiness Trap: Finding Balance and Asking the Right Questions
34:52

Transcript

Dua Lipa: Maybe it's just my algorithm, but I feel like social media recently is just video after video of so-called experts who promise that they can fix your relationship. I often think, what are these people's qualifications? And, honestly, does a good ...