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Likeability Expert: Stop Doing This, It’s Why People Quietly Avoid You! | Vanessa Van Edwards

The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett

8 HOURS AGO
The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett

The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett

8 HOURS AGO
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Are you sabotaging yourself with terrible communication habits and unconscious body language? Unlock the secrets of human connection to cultivate charisma, forge deeper connections, and eliminate awkward small talk for good. Vanessa Van Edwards is a behav...

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Vanessa Van Edwards presents conversation as a learnable advantage: by recognizing overtalking, moving beyond scripted questions, and using a practical blueprint, you can create more engaging and less awkward interactions.
03:39
Conversation skills are career insurance
10:04
Scripted questions trigger autopilot
21:45
Communication friction has a real business cost
46:57
Keep your speaking turns under 45 seconds
57:42
The hidden fear behind talking too much
1:14:33
Social media can steal the joy of discovery
1:20:34
Reserve deep vulnerability for trusted relationships
1:23:57
Redemptive narratives are linked to a better life
1:37:17
Archetypes are fluid stories, not fixed personality types
1:57:24
People remember how a conversation ends
2:05:07
Charisma signals trust and reliability
2:15:19
Eye contact is about connection, not constant performance
2:24:17
Better conversation can reduce loneliness

Chapters

Intro
00:00
How to Connect With Anyone
02:16
Why Great Conversation Is a Superpower
03:25
The 3 Questions That Build Instant Connection
06:46
The Fastest Way to Build a Real Connection
18:04
How to Get to Know Someone Fast
23:50
Why Genuine Curiosity Makes You More Charismatic
32:46
The Questions That Secretly Kill Conversations
35:37
What’s Worse: Talking Too Much or Too Little?
40:45
How to Know If You Talk Too Much
44:20
How to Spot a Conversational Narcissist
45:27
Ads
48:39
How to Know If You’re a Conversational Narcissist
55:16
The Real Reason First Dates Go Wrong
1:08:55
Can You Go Too Deep Too Quickly?
1:13:52
How to Rewrite the Story You Tell Yourself
1:18:08
The Psychology of Taking Control of Your Life
1:22:55
Ads
1:25:21
What Science Reveals About Luck and Success
1:30:07
The 5 Personality Archetypes Explained
1:36:09
Why Your Personality Changes How You Should Communicate
1:42:41
The Psychology of the “Unlucky Struggler”
1:51:50
How to Escape an Awkward Conversation
1:55:48
How to Build Aura and Rizz
1:59:13
How to Become More Charismatic
2:00:35
The Hidden Habits That Kill Your Charisma
2:04:56
What “Aura” Actually Means
2:09:04
The Eye Contact Trick That Builds Connection
2:13:26
How to Become an Exceptional Listener
2:16:16
Who This Book Was Really Written For
2:22:28

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Steven Bartlett: Running a small business can feel a lot like being alone at sea. And too often, you're not steering the ship yourself. You're getting dragged underneath. All of the admin. Things like offer letters, onboarding, wages, payroll, filing, taxe...