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who’s in the wrong? advice session

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[video available on spotify] welcome back to advice session, a series here on anything goes where you send in your current dilemmas, or anything you want advice on, and i give you my unprofessional advice. today's topic is friendship - specifically, situat...

Highlights

In this episode, Emma Chamberlain dives into the messy, emotional world of friendships where loyalties blur, feelings clash, and boundaries get tested. She tackles real listener dilemmas that explore the gray areas of loyalty, self-worth, and connection—when it’s hard to know if you're overreacting or standing your ground.
00:00
You don't need to just get over it — your feelings are valid.
11:50
Resenting a friend for being radiantly social is unfair—they're not dimming you on purpose
14:24
Removing yourself may be the only way to prompt change in a friend's behavior
19:35
No one is wrong in this situation—it's just an unfortunate complication between close relationships.
22:16
Prioritize deeper, longer-standing friendships over new romantic interests.

Chapters

When your friends forgive someone who hurt you—shouldn’t they pick you?
00:00
How do you know when a friendship is worth fixing—or better left behind?
05:50
Why does my friend’s confidence make me feel invisible—and what can I do about it?
08:41
What if my friend keeps making the same mistake, no matter how many times they say sorry?
14:24
Can a secret romance with a best friend’s sibling survive without destroying the friendship?
16:50
When love and loyalty collide—how do you choose without losing yourself?
22:16

Transcript

Emma Chamberlain: Welcome back to Advice Session, a series here on Anything Goes, where you send in your current dilemmas or anything you want advice on, and then I give you my unprofessional advice. And today's topic is friendship, but more specifically, ...