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Interviewing My Dad (Chapter 1)

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Highlights

In this heartfelt, intergenerational conversation, Dr. Kirk Honda sits down with his father, Alan, to explore the values, choices, and quiet acts of love that shaped their family over decades.
03:19
After Gary moved to California, Alan took on the role of continuing family traditions
29:07
The dad's goal was for the kids to experience sports, find their sport, and make lifetime friends
38:33
The father took vacation around Christmas specifically to spend time with family, reinforcing togetherness despite distance
52:35
Kirk earned an A in calculus while getting Ds and Fs elsewhere in his final quarter of high school
1:01:28
He chose the University of Washington due to lower tuition, proximity to home, and family connections
1:09:43
The guest would sing in a talent show, and the speaker and his wife had never heard him sing before
1:16:16
The guitar came from Uncle Ich’s Japanese worker, passed through Tycho and the speaker’s dad before reaching them
1:23:37
Father prioritized creating an environment where kids could succeed
1:24:57
The father deserves credit for the love in the family
1:31:22
They never go to bed mad
1:40:18
The bully had no friends and endured violent abuse at home
1:45:20
Paul David mentored me in my early career and helped me get my PhD
1:55:00
GoFundMe campaign raises $10,000 in a couple of months for an adoptive mother of a non-verbal autistic child

Chapters

How did Alan grow up?
00:00
What lessons were learned in sports?
05:46
How is family prioritized and valued?
32:29
Was Alan ever worried for Dr. Kirk?
40:41
How did Dr. Kirk choose a college?
54:59
When did Kirk start singing?
1:06:43
How did Alan feel when Dr. Kirk started making music?
1:10:28
Alan's perception of parenting
1:16:42
What is the secret to a happy marriage?
1:24:46
What has Alan learned about working out conflict?
1:28:04
What did Alan think of Dr. Kirk becoming a therapist?
1:37:57
What did Alan first think of the podcast?
1:42:08
Extras
1:48:46

Transcript

Kirk Honda: So, Dad, of course, got to have you on the podcast because I want to ask you all these questions. I thought we'd start from the beginning, Sure. And the first question I have is, what was it like growing up in your family? You live downtown in ...