“I did not want to compromise being my true self to be in a relationship, and even though I was lonely, I didn’t want to settle” “I just really followed my dreams and was like ‘if this is meant to happen, the universe is going to support me.’ If at any point it feels wrong, I will stop.” - Sidney Bensimon “I love my job so much. I feel like it’s my way of communicating, and it’s also my way of staying hopeful I think.” - Sidney Bensimon “The path to your desire is always different, and it’s different for everyone.” - Sidney Bensimon Today’s guest is a photographer and Pathway member, Sidney Jill Bensimon. She joins Lacy to talk The Process, and how she has used Lacy’s work to manifest her dream partner and career. They discuss where Sidney was at before she started the work, as well as what she’s been able to call in since starting the work. Sidney also shares the journey of manifesting her new retreat home in Maine. In This Episode We Talk About: * The dry summer in LA * Some highlights from the speaking tour so far * The physical updates on Lacy’s journey with the Karen Hurd protocol * Sidney’s cultural background and upbringing in Paris and New York * Sidney healing after divorce and calling in her dream partner * Sidney’s past work/career situation that led up to her work with Lacy * How Sidney ended up pursuing photography * Sidney’s human design as a projector * Sidney’s personal spiritual work outside of the TBM work * The groundwork in terms of relationship that led up to Sidney’s work with Lacy * Some of the struggles around manifesting in relationships * The parallels between her career and relationship lists * How Sidney found some of her biggest expanders in career and relationships * How we can curate social media to our needs and find expanders or eliminate negative energy * Some of the tests Sidney faced as she was getting closer to manifesting relationships * The mindset shifts she reinforced during her magic dark * The importance of identifying and working through our feelings rather than just sitting in those energetics * The series of small miracles/wins that led Sidney to where she is now in her career * Patterning that occurs when you are close to calling in a manifestation * How the miracles/wins in career also led her to her current relationship * The pain and challenges surrounding the start of Sidney and her partner’s relationship * The parallels of growth between relationships and career * The kismet things that have happened for Sidney since the turning point in Laos * Some of Sidney’s biggest rock bottoms * Sidney’s childhood experience in Paris * The details of manifesting the house in Maine * The new French & Spanish version of how to manifest being released soon * Sydney’s current work on the Pathway (Uplevel) and what she’s working on manifesting next #Resources: * To Be Magnetic [https://tobemagnetic.com/] * Instagram: @tobemagnetic [https://www.instagram.com/tobemagnetic/] * Newsletter [https://tobemagnetic.com/subscribe] * The Pathway [https://www.howtomanifest.com/p/the-pathway] * A la Carte Workshops [https://tobemagnetic.com/manifestation-workshops] 
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Four Sigmatic * @foursigmatic [https://www.instagram.com/foursigmatic/?hl=en] * Shop Lacy’s Favorites tbm15 for 15% Off [https://us.foursigmatic.com/affiliate/tobemagnetic?discount=tbm15&afmc=tbm15&utm_campaign=tbm15&utm_medium=partner&utm_source=podcast&utm_content=tbm15&utm_term=] In this Episode * Sidney’s Maine House Architecture [https://www.instagram.com/opifex.studio/] * Sidney’s Maine House Contractors [https://www.instagram.com/hatchetmtnbuilders/] * Thom Knowles Vedic Meditation [https://thomknoles.com/] * Practical Magic [https://www.amazon.com/Practical-Magic-Sandra-Bullock/dp/B000GOLTTQ] * Gillies Bensimon Fashion Photographer [https://www.instagram.com/gilles_bensimon/?hl=en] * In The Pathway Find: [https://tobemagnetic.com/manifestation-course-the-pathway-membership] * Unblocked Inner Child * Uplevel * DRE’s * The Facebook Group for Support * Your Local Unblocked Villages * Supported Episodes #Where to Find Sidney * Instagram @SidneyBensimon [https://www.instagram.com/sidneybensimon/] * Her Maine House @Stellahouse_Maine [https://www.instagram.com/stellahouse_maine/] * Her website [https://www.sidneybensimon.com/]   HOW TO MANIFEST [https://tobemagnetic.com/buy-how-to-manifest-book]by Lacy Phillips  (with exercises by Jessica Gill) Available now!   The Expanded Podcast, from To Be Magnetic™ (TBM), is the leading manifestation podcast rooted in neuroscience, psychology, and energetics. Hosted by TBM’s Chief Content Officer Jessica Gill, with monthly appearances from founder Lacy Phillips, Expanded is where science and the mystical meet to help you manifest in the most grounded, practical, and life-changing way. At TBM, we’ve redefined manifestation through Neural Manifestation™—our proven, science-backed method developed with neuroscientist Dr. Tara Swart. This process helps you reprogram limiting beliefs at the subconscious level so you can create the life most aligned with your authenticity. Each week, we take you inside the TBM practice to help you expand your subconscious to believe what you desire is possible. Through expert interviews, thought leader conversations, TBM teachings, and real member success stories, you’ll learn how to:  – Rewire your subconscious mind and step into your worth  – Heal your inner child and integrate shadow work  – Set boundaries, strengthen intuition, and reclaim self-worth  – Manifest relationships, careers, abundance, and experiences that align with your true self With over than 40 million downloads and a global community in over 100 countries, Expanded has become the gold standard in manifestation content. Think of it as your weekly practice for expanding your mind, believing what you want is possible, and manifesting the life you’re meant to live. Past guests include leading voices such as Mel Robbins, Lewis Howes, Jenna Zoe, Martha Beck, Dr. Joe Dispenza, Dr. Gabor Maté, Mark Groves, and Brianna Wiest.   WHERE TO FIND US! * @tobemagnetic [https://www.instagram.com/tobemagnetic/?hl=en](IG) * @Lacyannephillips [https://www.instagram.com/lacyannephillips/] * Lacy Launched a Substack! - By Candlelight - Join Here [https://lacyphillips528961.substack.com/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAabGSOEfunNTeBL3eVfXrrdPxaFVb3w4Z7-URcYr4qmMbT7mcMrX8WitgyE_aem_FTazu5Wkvuh2oxgNyHeCmw?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=audio&utm_campaign=EP356] * @Jessicaashleygill [https://www.instagram.com/jessicaashleygill/?hl=en] * @tobemagnetic [https://www.youtube.com/@tobemagnetic] (youtube) * @expandedpodcast [https://www.instagram.com/expandedpodcast/?hl=en]