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Simple Steps for Getting Unstuck: Do THIS and Change Your Life

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Today’s episode is going to change the way you think about your life.  If you keep telling yourself you want to: -go after something bigger  -start something new  -speak up  -take a chance  -or finally do the thing you know you’re meant to do in life...

Highlights

This episode features a powerful, no-nonsense conversation with Seth Godin about why we stall on the things that matter most—and how to move forward anyway.
13:16
Resistance shows up precisely when you’re about to do something important
22:54
Fear is the core motivator underlying status and affiliation, driving resistance to change
26:07
Using 'and' allows us to acknowledge both positive changes and a spouse's feelings, instead of using the spouse as an excuse to stop
43:35
Being remarkable means doing something others benefit from when they talk about you
46:41
The status game is a trap; focus on self-development instead of comparison
55:53
Perfectionism is used as an excuse and keeps one from shipping work
1:01:24
Seth Godin advises making a ruckus by doing work that matters for people who care
1:04:13
Mel encourages listeners to use Seth's teachings for a better life

Chapters

What Resistance Is Really Trying to Tell You
00:00
Why Waiting for Permission Keeps You Small
16:37
How to Start Before You Feel Ready (and Why You Should)
26:07
Who Is Your Work *Really* For?
34:54
When Status Games Steal Your Energy—and How to Stop Playing
46:41
Is It Quality—or Just an Excuse to Delay?
55:53
How to Show Up Consistently, Even When You Don’t Feel Like It
1:01:24
Your Invitation to Make a Ruckus—Starting Today
1:04:13

Transcript

Mel Robbins: Hey, it's your friend Mel, and welcome to the Mel Robbins Podcast. Today, I'm going to ask you to do something I have never done before. I'm going to ask you to be selfish. See, there's a project or a goal, or there's something important to yo...