“You can come back from anything. You’re intended to go through it so you can come out and show yourself something bigger.” — Jocelyn Today’s guest is a fellow Pathway member who has come on the show to share her own experience doing the Pathway work. Jocelyn talks in-depth about her experience in childhood as a woman of color and how this influenced her upbringing. She describes her workshop experience, and how it’s brought her to a magnetic space in both dating and her career. #In This Episode We Talk About: * A relaxing week away in NYC, meeting people who are doing the Pathway work * The effects for Lacy doing the fat-soluble protocol * The new unscented products she’s using * The new body of work Lacy has downloaded * Jocelyn’s cultural background and upbringing, including the influence of her grandparents on her parents’ upbringing * Both of her parents grew up/went to school during segregation; they raised Jocelyn and her siblings with a very “push forward” attitude * Her experience as an African American growing up in a primarily Caucasian environment * How this experience affects how others view her/how she views herself * The author of the book More Than Enough serving as an expander around these topics * Feeling that we are here for more than this * How she identifies (or doesn’t) with all the different groups she’s associated with * The archetypes we call forward in our most magnetic state — for Jocelyn, it’s more about how she feels than how she imagines herself in specific scenarios * Her biggest rock bottom, and the conditions surrounding it * How received the ping to get out of that rock bottom — the series of events that led her to get out of the situation * Her anxious attachment to a guy in LA during this time, and the psychic premonitions about him * Until you know who you are entirely, don’t go see anyone about future premonitions * Everyone is meant to go through a conscious update, but it happens at different points in life for everyone * During the rock bottom, work was one thing that remained constant * The struggle in work feeling like an entrepreneur in a corporate, structured setting * Jocelyn has a first-hand experience with the work and The Pathway * How someone she dated served as a mirror during Unblocked Reparent and Shadow * Perfectionism, and how this influences how Jocelyn accepts love * Growing up, she always felt that something was missing in her friendships and relationships — the work has helped her form deeper connections with like-minded people * Finding a safe space to express our emotions and owning the way we express ourselves * What’s come up for her in her career/entrepreneurship while working through the Pathway * Reconciling her career mindset with the work history of her parents, specifically growing up without her mom working * The most valuable work upfront for her was shadow work - she experienced many things that were bigger than her * How the work she was doing shifted things within her family dynamic, especially the relationship with her dad * If something’s not moving or opening up, there’s still another layer of unblocking or expansion that you need to do * During Unblocked Money she called forth a great opportunity for her career * Everything in life is energetic, even if we put it on a physical item; it’s an energetic of worthiness * Every time she would push this guy away, she would get magnetic in her career * When you consciously ask for expanders, the universe will put them in front of you * Her brother’s wedding served as a final expander for her romantic life — she has been dating more recently than she has before * Besides Elaine, her brother’s wedding, and her aunt, Lacy is a big expander for Jocelyn; she also has several micro-expanders * Three things in motion to manifest: 1. Finding expanders/being expanded in what you want 2. Being unblocked 3. Taking action * Jocelyn’s current career manifestations and how they are creating magnetism in other areas of her life * Expansion around identifying and pulling together someone she is physically attracted to and the chemistry is there, with someone who is emotionally available * Knowing what your capable of and fully stepping into your financial worth * Lacy answers some of Jocelyn’s manifestation questions around the next career steps and love * Don’t get addicted to using healers, but use them when you need them — follow your intuition * To be a new way in this world, the old way has to actually die #Resources: * To Be Magnetic [https://tobemagnetic.com/] * Instagram: @tobemagnetic [https://www.instagram.com/tobemagnetic/] * Newsletter [https://tobemagnetic.com/subscribe] * The Forest Retreat House [https://theforestretreathouse.com] * Instagram: @theforestretreathouse [https://theforestretreathouse.com] * Book The Forest Retreat House for a Promo Price [https://www.vrbo.com/1690241?adultsCount=2&arrival=2019-11-06&departure=2019-11-09] * Lacy Phillips Live: The Manifestation Tour [https://love.consciouscityguide.com/to-be-magnetic] * The Pathway [https://www.howtomanifest.com/p/the-pathway] * A la Carte Workshops [https://tobemagnetic.com/manifestation-workshops] NYC * Oroboro Store [https://oroborostore.com] * Raku Restaurant [http://rakunyc.com] HEALTH * Unique Hammond [https://www.newworldnative.com/people/unique-hammond] * Dr. Karen Hurd [http://www.karenhurd.com] UNSCENTED * Rosehip Seed Oil [https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00PG4OVDC/ref=as_li_qf_asin_il_tl?ie=UTF8&tag=freeandnati0b-20&creative=9325&linkCode=as2&creativeASIN=B00PG4OVDC&linkId=b78ec966ba2baf88c9eedf789a149699%3E] * Shea Butter [https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B06ZY4J8Z6/ref=as_li_qf_asin_il_tl?ie=UTF8&tag=freeandnati0b-20&creative=9325&linkCode=as2&creativeASIN=B06ZY4J8Z6&linkId=65a3b8ec37ef6e99740ba09fc72e3b73%3E] * Osea Sea Vitamin Boost [http://shrsl.com/1tthc] * Osea Brightening Serum [http://shrsl.com/1tthe] * Osea Atmosphere Protection Cream [http://shrsl.com/1tthj] * Biossance Phyto Retinol [https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B07JYK8LP1/ref=as_li_qf_asin_il_tl?ie=UTF8&tag=freeandnati0b-20&creative=9325&linkCode=as2&creativeASIN=B07JYK8LP1&linkId=5fe6bd832998e63fe792a8f5911287d0%3E] * Dr. Bronner’s Unscented [https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B000HJXQ9G/ref=as_li_qf_asin_il_tl?ie=UTF8&tag=freeandnati0b-20&creative=9325&linkCode=as2&creativeASIN=B000HJXQ9G&linkId=eb37b9cc47339fd03edb337fba35df97%3E] * The Seaweed Bath Co. 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