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Human Lie Detector: The #1 Sign They’re Lying To You, Catch Liars Instantly! | Dr Leanne Ten Brinke

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Human Lie Detector: The #1 Sign They’re Lying To You, Catch Liars Instantly! | Dr Leanne Ten Brinke

The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett

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The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett

The Diary Of A CEO with Steven Bartlett

10 HOURS AGO
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Are you dealing with a master manipulator? Learn how to identify the hidden red flags of liars, psychopaths and narcissists before they cause lasting damage. Dr. Leanne ten Brinke, a renowned psychologist and director of the Truth and Trust Lab at the Uni...

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Dr. Leanne ten Brinke explains what research can—and cannot—reveal about deception, psychopathy, narcissism, and other dark personality traits. The conversation combines lie-detection evidence with practical ways to recognize patterns, protect boundaries, and respond without becoming cynical about human nature.
01:03
Psychopaths do not look like movie villains
04:27
Psychopathy feels foreign because it is the opposite of ordinary human behavior
11:16
Liars tend to give fewer details
15:54
Ask better questions, not just more questions
20:12
Verifiability beats body language
27:45
Vulnerable narcissists have fragile egos
35:27
Psychopathy can wear a mask of sanity
39:28
Dark traits are shaped by both nature and nurture
42:07
Psychopathy risk can be a double whammy
46:47
Psychopathy is linked to smaller, less active amygdalas
50:21
Change requires motivation
53:49
People feel less connected to liars without realizing why
59:00
Trust requires both warmth and competence
1:03:09
The data challenges the myth of successful psychopathy
1:08:29
Look for patterns, not isolated clues
1:14:15
Dating profiles are advertisements, not entire personalities
1:22:48
Clear boundaries may deter targeting
1:25:58
Gaslighting denies someone’s reality
1:31:58
Use the carrot, not the stick
1:40:25
Text takes away manipulative charisma
1:44:04
Understand their motivation before trying to change their behavior
1:46:55
The great lie about success

Chapters

Intro
00:00
Why This Research Into Psychopathy Matters
02:21
Why Psychopathy Is Getting More Attention
02:58
Can You Spot a Psychopath in 5 Seconds?
04:05
How Facial Expressions Reveal What People Really Feel
05:30
Can You Predict If Someone Is Guilty?
08:56
Three Signs Someone Might Be Lying
09:59
Can Anyone Learn to Spot a Liar?
13:46
Why the Eye Contact Myth Gets Body Language Wrong
20:29
Psychopathy, Narcissism, Machiavellianism and Sadism Explained
21:53
The Biggest Myths About Psychopaths Debunked
34:49
How Common Are Dark Personality Traits?
36:28
Are Dark Traits Caused by Genetics or Childhood?
38:05
How to Increase Your Chances of Becoming a Good Parent
41:13
What Happens Inside a Psychopath's Brain?
44:23
Can Dark Personality Traits Be Cured?
46:06
Ads
49:30
Why Being Lied to Makes You Feel Distant
51:32
Can You Be Warm and Competent at the Same Time?
57:14
Why Dark Personality Traits Don't Get You Ahead
59:57
What a Real Job Applicant's Voice Note Revealed
1:04:43
How to Spot Red Flags in Dating Profiles and Relationships
1:09:06
Ads
1:17:08
Why Setting Boundaries Matters More Than You Think
1:18:17
7 Rules for Dealing With Dark Personalities
1:19:36
How to Spot Gaslighting and Coercive Control
1:23:32
7 Rules for Dealing With Dark Personalities Continued
1:27:55
How to Communicate With Dark Personalities
1:35:03
How to Become a Better Detective of People's Cues
1:37:54
Why You Should Avoid Face to Face Negotiations
1:38:25
Three Mistakes People Make With Dark Personalities
1:42:18
How the 10% Do the Damage and the Biggest Lie About Success
1:44:02
What Is the Greatest Lie We've All Been Told?
1:45:35

Transcript

Steven Bartlett: Running a small business can feel a lot like being alone at sea. And too often, you're not steering the ship yourself. You're getting dragged underneath. All of the admin. Things like offer letters, onboarding, wages, payroll, filing, taxe...