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Episode 1: A Moment of Silence

Boys Like Me

2021/11/22
Boys Like Me

Boys Like Me

2021/11/22
In the aftermath of a senseless act of violence, personal stories emerge that challenge our understanding of connection, isolation, and responsibility. This podcast doesn't just recount the events of a tragic day—it peels back the layers of human experience surrounding it, revealing how lives on the margins intersect in unexpected ways.
The podcast explores the emotional and psychological ripple effects of the 2018 Toronto van attack through the eyes of Evan Mead, a filmmaker on the autism spectrum who once shared a classroom with the suspect, Alek Minassian. As Evan grapples with the shock of this connection, the narrative contrasts his efforts to foster love and community among neurodivergent individuals with Minassian’s descent into incel ideology and violence. Bystander Tiffany’s heroic actions during the attack highlight the unpredictability of human response in crisis. Media attention forces Evan to confront painful questions about missed signals and shared isolation. Over time, empathy gives way to moral reckoning as Minassian’s motives are revealed, transforming Evan’s planned documentary into a deeper meditation on how marginalized men navigate alienation—one choosing connection, the other destruction.
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10:15
Tiffany performed CPR on victims while most bystanders did not help
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16:44
Evan had trouble believing Alek could be involved in the attack because they were in the same special-needs class.
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23:34
Kathy Riddell shares her long and painful recovery process after the attack
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27:02
Evan felt guilt for not responding to Alec's messages, thinking he might have helped.
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30:20
Evan saw Minassian's incel post before the attack.