“That’s what’s great about the program, is that you can learn more about yourself. It was a lot about the shedding”. “There was definitely a rock bottom, there were definitely some tests that weren’t passed, and a little bit of a magic dark this summer and then BOOM it came through. It’s just crazy because everything really does fall into formula.” – Parker “There’s all of these societal timelines, and when people don’t necessarily line up it’s kind of a beautiful moment of that’s not supposed to be your timeline. The universe is going to rock bottom you out so you can figure out what your timeline is and how it’s unique to the world.” – Jessica “If you’re feeling a lot of pressure to be a certain way, check the environment that you’re in. If you have the opportunity to leave or choose different places to be and collect in, do that. It was huge for me and it could be huge for you.” — Parker Today Pathway member Parker Middleton joins Jessica for a Process episode on manifesting his dream partner. Parker dives into the programming he picked up living in the south and being bi-sexual, how he unblocked, found clear expanders, and passed tests in both love and career that led him to his exact list. Parker and Jessica also talk about moving through the loneliness that can come up when you say no to potential partners who aren’t right for you. Parker also shares his most important tips for anyone manifesting a partner. In this episode we talk about: * Updates on Lacy’s fertility journey * Spring updates for the Forest Retreat House * The Vancouver speaking tour date * How Parker was able to incorporate his creativity into a pragmatic career path * Parker’s own manifestation journey and how he found To Be Magnetic * The benefit of action steps that allow you to take control with the TBM model * How Parker was able to filter his list to really manifest the desires of his authentic self, rather than his ego * Crafting lists based on what you want to manifest right now, rather than your broad long-term goals, which allows you to build the trust muscle * What Parker’s list looked like for partner and career * How Parker experienced the connection between love and money in his own journey * The idea that you can’t fail a test, but they will come back for you to pass later on * Some of the lessons Parker learned through the workshops and Deep Imaginings * The feelings of confirmation Parker received when he found his current partner * Parker’s journey of manifesting his partner and what he discovered about himself through passing tests * Parker’s rock bottom moment * The link between societal timelines and people’s rock bottoms * Leaning into what feels authentic for you * Parker’s expanders throughout this process, and what he looked for in an expander * Finding expanders that line up with your own authenticity * How Parker experiences pings in his manifestation process * Parker’s 3 biggest tips for someone who is waiting for their manifestation to come through Resources: * To Be Magnetic [https://tobemagnetic.com/] * Instagram: @tobemagnetic [https://www.instagram.com/tobemagnetic/] * The Pathway 2.0 use code EXPANDED for $20 off your first month of the Pathway 2.0 or $20 off any 2.0 ala carte courses! 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 Leave a Review 5 star review [https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/expanded-podcast-with-lacy-phillips/id1419732648] for a chance to win a 1-year membership to The Pathway 2.0. Then tune into future episodes to hear your review announced! If you win send us a message on Intercom to claim it. HOW TO MANIFEST [https://tobemagnetic.com/buy-how-to-manifest-book]by Lacy Phillips (with exercises by Jessica Gill) Available now! The Expanded Podcast, from To Be Magnetic™ (TBM), is the leading manifestation podcast rooted in neuroscience, psychology, and energetics. Hosted by TBM’s Chief Content Officer Jessica Gill, with monthly appearances from founder Lacy Phillips, Expanded is where science and the mystical meet to help you manifest in the most grounded, practical, and life-changing way. At TBM, we’ve redefined manifestation through Neural Manifestation™—our proven, science-backed method developed with neuroscientist Dr. Tara Swart. This process helps you reprogram limiting beliefs at the subconscious level so you can create the life most aligned with your authenticity. Each week, we take you inside the TBM practice to help you expand your subconscious to believe what you desire is possible. Through expert interviews, thought leader conversations, TBM teachings, and real member success stories, you’ll learn how to: – Rewire your subconscious mind and step into your worth – Heal your inner child and integrate shadow work – Set boundaries, strengthen intuition, and reclaim self-worth – Manifest relationships, careers, abundance, and experiences that align with your true self With over than 40 million downloads and a global community in over 100 countries, Expanded has become the gold standard in manifestation content. Think of it as your weekly practice for expanding your mind, believing what you want is possible, and manifesting the life you’re meant to live. Past guests include leading voices such as Mel Robbins, Lewis Howes, Jenna Zoe, Martha Beck, Dr. Joe Dispenza, Dr. Gabor Maté, Mark Groves, and Brianna Wiest. WHERE TO FIND US! * @tobemagnetic [https://www.instagram.com/tobemagnetic/?hl=en](IG) * @Lacyannephillips [https://www.instagram.com/lacyannephillips/] * Lacy Launched a Substack! - By Candlelight - Join Here [https://lacyphillips528961.substack.com/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAabGSOEfunNTeBL3eVfXrrdPxaFVb3w4Z7-URcYr4qmMbT7mcMrX8WitgyE_aem_FTazu5Wkvuh2oxgNyHeCmw?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=audio&utm_campaign=EP356] * @Jessicaashleygill [https://www.instagram.com/jessicaashleygill/?hl=en] * @tobemagnetic [https://www.youtube.com/@tobemagnetic] (youtube) * @expandedpodcast [https://www.instagram.com/expandedpodcast/?hl=en]