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Ep. 82 - EXPLAINED Love & Partnership

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“At the end of the day, in order to attract the partnership you want, it’s about doing the work and making the space to get there.” - Lacy “You’re not doing the work just to secure your partner more intensely. You’re doing it to secure your own worth so y...

Highlights

In this Valentine's Day episode, the hosts explore how the journey to finding and sustaining love is fundamentally an inside job. They discuss how self-improvement and authenticity are the true foundations for attracting a healthy partnership, moving beyond external circumstances and surface-level desires.
07:12
The process has been incredible with deeper sleep and more energy.
12:59
Developing oneself attracts a mirror partner for mutual growth
27:39
Relationships act as mirrors reflecting areas needing personal growth.
36:52
Boundaries, shame, and self-worth are non-negotiable.
57:20
Your energy shifts, causing relationships to either evolve or fall away.
1:09:38
You are your own creator

Chapters

Why Self-Love and Worth Are the Real Valentine's Day Gifts
00:00
How Authenticity Attracts a Partner for Mutual Growth
12:59
Recognizing Trauma Bonds as a Gateway to Deeper Connection
21:48
Three Non-Negotiables That Filter Out the Wrong Partners
36:52
Unblocking Love by Distinguishing Core Wants from Surface Desires
49:13
Becoming Your Own Creator: How Inner Work Attracts the Love You Want
1:09:38

Transcript

Lacy Phillips: to naturally attract in those dynamics, that interaction. And again, it's various how the caretakers interacted with each other and how you interacted with each individual caretaker, because at a young age, you imprinted. That is what the me...