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#1037 - Life Hacks: A Christmas Special (2025)

Modern Wisdom

2025/12/25
Modern Wisdom

Modern Wisdom

2025/12/25

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I'm back on my old couch in Newcastle upon Tyne, with Jonny, a virtual Yusef & George to catch up on what they've learned this year, what their best hacks were, and their reflections on 2025. Sponsors: See discounts for all the products I use and recomm...

Highlights

In this reflective Christmas special, Chris Williamson reunites with Jonny, George, and Yusef to explore the deeper lessons of the past year, moving beyond surface-level hacks to examine how identity, emotion, and awareness shape lasting growth.
01:30
Meditation becomes effortless when it's part of your identity
05:45
Jhana meditation focuses on sustained attention to joy rather than breath
11:11
Uber offers price-drop compensation on flight bookings
17:30
The chess clock method imposes a real cost on distractions, increasing focus.
22:21
The Brick for iPhone uses NFC to lock your phone automatically based on schedule.
29:35
Most thoughts are bottom-up, starting with a feeling and then finding an explanation.
32:47
Emotions are logical, you're just bad at logic
42:15
We all have a bit of Henry's mirror — constantly forgetting much of our daily experiences.
45:45
Life keeps presenting the same lessons until you learn them
50:41
The real gain is the person one becomes through pursuing hard goals
56:19
The person you become while chasing hard goals matters more than the goal itself.
1:01:24
Unteachable lessons are unteachable.
1:07:36
The quickest way to get rid of a desire might be to achieve it.
1:10:29
What looks like a highlight reel is often a never-ending war behind the scenes.
1:15:37
Seeing a carpet for the first time after eye surgery can be a profound experience.
1:23:45
Choosing beliefs that help bring more positive energy into the world
1:24:01
Derek Sivers once apologized to a woman he believed he paralyzed, only to discover years later it wasn’t true—highlighting the power of false memory.
1:30:15
Using feelings of insufficiency as motivation is like using dirty fuel—it will damage the engine.
1:32:02
Insufficiency-driven motivation damages the 'engine' over time
1:34:19
Just because one can endure a difficult situation doesn't mean they should.
1:37:06
Being good at carrying burdens doesn't mean they're not heavy
1:39:31
'Deep sparring' is underpriced; discussing problems with trusted friends is more valuable than solitary deep work.
1:44:58
Working with others is more effective and enjoyable than going it alone.

Chapters

How a Meditation App Changed My Relationship with Mindfulness
00:00
Can Joy Be Trained Like a Muscle? Exploring Jhana Meditation
05:45
Is This the Easiest Way to Book Cheaper Flights?
11:11
Why Your Deep Work Might Be Failing (And How to Fix It)
16:53
What Happens When You Lock Your Phone Away for Good?
22:21
Do We Make Decisions With Our Hearts or Our Heads?
27:18
Where Do Emotions Really Come From?
32:47
What If You Could Never Remember Anything New?
40:42
How Journaling Can Help You Break Life’s Repeating Loops
45:45
Why Hard Goals Change You More Than They Reward You
50:41
Did I Actually Want That Goal—or Just the Idea of It?
56:19
If Happiness Isn’t in the Destination, Where Is It?
1:01:24
Why Some Lessons Can Only Be Learned the Hard Way
1:04:33
What’s Really Hidden Behind the Mask of Success?
1:10:29
Why Does Time Feel Like It’s Speeding Up?
1:15:37
From Logic to Feeling: A Personal Shift in Priorities
1:21:16
How Your Energy Shapes the World Around You
1:24:01
When Productivity Becomes a Trap for the Lonely
1:29:39
Is Your Next Goal Just More of the Same?
1:32:02
Why Settling Down Doesn’t Mean Giving Up
1:34:19
Why Being ‘Strong’ Can Make Friendships One-Sided
1:37:06
Who Do Leaders Turn to When No One Sees Their Struggles?
1:39:31
Were Geniuses Ever Really Alone?
1:44:58

Transcript

Chris Williamson: Merry Christmas, everybody. For the people who joined the podcast within the last five years, the last few million, three million subscribers. This is my living room in Newcastle. And this is Jonny, and this is George. And that's Yusef, a...