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The Essentials: Getting the Feedback You Need

Women at Work

2023/01/23
Women at Work

Women at Work

2023/01/23
Navigating a career without clear feedback can be isolating, especially when promotions come without the insights needed to sustain growth. For professionals like Jasmine LaFleur, an aerospace engineer excelling in her role, the silence around her performance creates uncertainty about her standing and future trajectory.
The conversation explores how to thrive in environments where meaningful feedback is scarce. Experts suggest shifting from asking for feedback to seeking advice, initiating structured career dialogues with leaders, and focusing on future goals rather than past performance. Building self-awareness and internal validation helps reduce dependence on external recognition, while creating peer support networks fosters resilience. When feedback does arrive—especially if misaligned with personal priorities—responding with gratitude, clarity, and boundaries is crucial. The discussion emphasizes proactive communication, particularly for underrepresented groups who often face invisible barriers to advancement. Learning to filter input, delegate appropriately, and assert limits protects focus and prevents burnout, enabling long-term success even in feedback-poor cultures.
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Promotions don't guarantee meaningful feedback
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Ask your boss what you need to do to reach your three-year career goal.
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Asking for advice is more empowering than asking for feedback because it focuses on future growth.
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Self-documenting feedback helps ensure it's recorded and acknowledged by management.
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Black women often take on everything instead of setting boundaries.