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Ep. 71 - Navigating Money and Career with Lila Seeley

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“That’s why I think it’s so important to not try to perfect; it’s much more about letting what’s coming up in life dictate how you do the work.” - Lacy “Worthiness actually is usually accompanied by quiet humbleness and quiet gracefulness.” - Lacy “There is that perfect job. What you want exists, and if it doesn’t, you have the ability to create it.” - Lila This is Lila’s last episode! As one of the first people Lacy manifested to bring on board, she really helped to make To Be Magnetic a brand. Lila is now transitioning to a new career path. In this episode, they talk about Lila’s transition and the work and tests she encountered over the past year or so. They also answer some listener questions around career, money, bridge jobs, and maintaining your worth in career. In This Episode We Talk About: * The new platform and content for the site * Lila’s transition to a new career path * How she started saving up for a transition, and her bridge job * The fears that have come up around money as she makes this transition * Dani Beinstein’s reading for Lila and what it meant for career and money * How Lila navigated her Pluto transit * The perfect timing of Lila’s job at TBM * Lila’s advice for people at a pivotal moment in their careers * Things you can do or look at if you’re: thinking of leaving a position, hesitating to go after another offer you want, or are satisfied and looking for something deeper * Taking stock of your accomplishments and your skillset * What Lila is hoping to do next, and what pings she’s been following * The idea of a reverse block * The energetics around buying in abundance and living out the means of our goals * Being in abundance for specific monetary goals * Calling in expanders the same way you might call in a partner * Manifesting things that may be in conflict with one another * Listening to the universe when you are stuck in a toxic environment * Permission to move through different goals or ideas quickly * The idea of perfect timing, and what timing we have control over * The difference between a bridge job and a test * Keeping your lifestyle free with a bridge job and beyond * Understanding the root cause of relationship dynamics * How love and money are intertwined in energetics * Staying in your worth when you get fired from a job * Building your trust muscle through tests * Surrender and gracefulness as necessary components to passing the big tests * Best DRE’s and expanders around money * Navigating a financial rock bottom while you’re in a relationship high * Manifesting even with energetic vampires around * Boundaries and codependency * Expressing ourselves externally through our wardrobe, and financially supporting a wardrobe overall Resources: #BLACK FRIDAY SALE * $18/month for 12 months on Pathway 2.0 - Find Supported Class in here! [https://www.howtomanifest.com/p/the-pathway] * If you’re already a Pathway Member, your previous payment plan will be canceled by our team and your new 12m commitment will begin at the lower price! * 50% off ala carte workshops with code BLACKFRIDAY50 [https://tobemagnetic.com/manifestation-workshops] * To Be Magnetic [https://tobemagnetic.com/] * Instagram: @tobemagnetic [https://www.instagram.com/tobemagnetic/] * Newsletter [https://tobemagnetic.com/subscribe] * The Pathway (use code JOURNEY for one month off the first year) [https://www.howtomanifest.com/p/the-pathway] * A la Carte Workshops [https://tobemagnetic.com/manifestation-workshops] * The Forest Retreat House [https://theforestretreathouse.com] * Instagram: @theforestretreathouse [https://www.instagram.com/theforestretreathouse/] * Book The Forest Retreat House for a Promo Price [https://www.vrbo.com/1690241?adultsCount=2&arrival=2019-11-06&departure=2019-11-09] * Lacy Phillips Live: The Manifestation Tou [https://love.consciouscityguide.com/to-be-magnetic]r (MEMBER for $15 off) * Daily Reprogramming Challenge [https://tobemagnetic.com/dre-challenge] Workshops Mentioned OR Find all of them in The Pathway [https://tobemagnetic.com/manifestation-course-the-pathway-membership] * How To Manifest [https://tobemagnetic.com/learn-how-to-manifest] * Unblocked Money (Opulence) [https://tobemagnetic.com/unblocked-money-manifesting-workshop] * DRE [https://tobemagnetic.com/daily-subconscious-reprogramming-exercises] (Shadow and Inner Child DRE & Trigger DRE found in here) * Unblocked Love [https://tobemagnetic.com/unblocked-love-manifesting-workshop] * Unblocked No only in The Pathway [https://tobemagnetic.com/manifestation-course-the-pathway-membership] * Uplevel (Rockbottom & Uplevel) [https://tobemagnetic.com/uplevel-video-workshop] In the Episode * Dani Beinstein [https://www.instagram.com/danibeinstein/] * Brave Roadmap [https://tobemagnetic.com/monthlyroadmaps/2019/10/2/the-brave-roadmap?rq=roadmap] * Lunya eye masks [https://www.lunya.co/products/restore-sleep-mask] * BluBlox Eye Mask (use code MAGNETIC for 15% off) [https://www.blublox.com/] * Lunya silk onesie [https://www.lunya.co/collections/all/products/washable-silk-double-v-jumpsuit?variant=17235130482731] * Coyuchi [https://www.coyuchi.com/womens-solstice-organic-romper.html] * EXPANDED Ep 65 x Coyuchi [https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast/2019/65] * Amanda Chantel Bacon [https://www.instagram.com/amandachantalbacon/] * Thomas Shelby Character [https://peaky-blinders.fandom.com/wiki/Thomas_Shelby] * EXPANDED Ep 57 x Dr. Nicole LePera [https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast/2019/57] #Where to Find Lila * Instagram @Lilaabell [https://www.instagram.com/lilaabell/]   HOW TO MANIFEST [https://tobemagnetic.com/buy-how-to-manifest-book]by Lacy Phillips  (with exercises by Jessica Gill) Available now!   The Expanded Podcast, from To Be Magnetic™ (TBM), is the leading manifestation podcast rooted in neuroscience, psychology, and energetics. Hosted by TBM’s Chief Content Officer Jessica Gill, with monthly appearances from founder Lacy Phillips, Expanded is where science and the mystical meet to help you manifest in the most grounded, practical, and life-changing way. At TBM, we’ve redefined manifestation through Neural Manifestation™—our proven, science-backed method developed with neuroscientist Dr. Tara Swart. This process helps you reprogram limiting beliefs at the subconscious level so you can create the life most aligned with your authenticity. Each week, we take you inside the TBM practice to help you expand your subconscious to believe what you desire is possible. Through expert interviews, thought leader conversations, TBM teachings, and real member success stories, you’ll learn how to:  – Rewire your subconscious mind and step into your worth  – Heal your inner child and integrate shadow work  – Set boundaries, strengthen intuition, and reclaim self-worth  – Manifest relationships, careers, abundance, and experiences that align with your true self With over than 40 million downloads and a global community in over 100 countries, Expanded has become the gold standard in manifestation content. Think of it as your weekly practice for expanding your mind, believing what you want is possible, and manifesting the life you’re meant to live. Past guests include leading voices such as Mel Robbins, Lewis Howes, Jenna Zoe, Martha Beck, Dr. Joe Dispenza, Dr. Gabor Maté, Mark Groves, and Brianna Wiest.   WHERE TO FIND US! * @tobemagnetic [https://www.instagram.com/tobemagnetic/?hl=en](IG) * @Lacyannephillips [https://www.instagram.com/lacyannephillips/] * Lacy Launched a Substack! - By Candlelight - Join Here [https://lacyphillips528961.substack.com/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAabGSOEfunNTeBL3eVfXrrdPxaFVb3w4Z7-URcYr4qmMbT7mcMrX8WitgyE_aem_FTazu5Wkvuh2oxgNyHeCmw?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=audio&utm_campaign=EP356] * @Jessicaashleygill [https://www.instagram.com/jessicaashleygill/?hl=en] * @tobemagnetic [https://www.youtube.com/@tobemagnetic] (youtube) * @expandedpodcast [https://www.instagram.com/expandedpodcast/?hl=en]

Highlights

In this heartfelt episode, Lacy Phillips and Jessica Gill celebrate Lila Seeley's final appearance on the podcast as she transitions from To Be Magnetic to a new career in film and television. The conversation dives deep into the practical and energetic aspects of navigating a major career shift, covering everything from building a financial safety net to overcoming deep-seated fears about money and worth. Through listener questions and personal stories, they explore how to use manifestation tools to find clarity, maintain abundance, and trust the timing of your path.
00:02
A heartfelt episode dedicated to Lila Seeley's transition.
11:56
Surrender to your Capricorn nature
14:10
Focus on how you want to feel, not on labels.
26:48
Money is about energetics, not going into debt.
29:27
Buying things you want attracts more abundance.
41:15
Prejudice and insecurity block abundance
46:26
Staying for security leads to shrinking well-being.
55:53
We have about 85-90% control over how quickly things unfold.
58:31
Impatience can slow progress.
1:06:52
Leaving builds magnetism and growth.
1:20:13
True worthiness is quiet humbleness and gracefulness.
1:28:07
A relationship high point alongside financial rock bottom signals rapid upleveling.
1:36:10
Shed your skin to reflect your growth.
1:38:56
Trust that your dream job exists or can be created.

Chapters

A Heartfelt Farewell: Lila's Transition from To Be Magnetic
00:00
Building an F-U Fund and Facing Money Fears
06:25
How TBM Tools Helped Navigate a Career Pivot into Nannying
14:10
The 'Reverse Block': When Unblocking Money Creates New Tests
21:59
Spending Full Price to Attract More Abundance
29:27
Finding Expanders Who Built Success from Nothing
36:14
Can You Manifest a Promotion and a New Business at the Same Time?
43:58
Reframing Flakiness as Curiosity and Managing Multiple Passions
51:14
How Much Control Do We Really Have Over Manifestation Speed?
58:31
A Bridge Job vs. a Test: What's the Real Difference?
1:06:52
The Energetic Link Between Love and Money
1:14:56
Dani Beinstein's Reading: Surrendering Gracefully to Pass the Test
1:22:51
Manifesting Abundance While Surrounded by Negative Energy
1:30:32
Building a Quality Wardrobe on a Budget and Final Career Advice
1:38:56

Transcript

Lila Seeley: What do you value? What lights you up? What inspires you? Find your authentic code and know that find expanders too that can show you and start unlocking. There is that perfect job. There is like, what you want exists, and if it doesn't, you h...