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Ep. 352 - How to Manifest a Book Launch, A Dream Home, and an Uplevel in Career & Relationship - The Process with Alix Traeger

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Cookbook. Dream Home. Career & Relationship Uplevel. Alix Traeger returns to expanded to tell us how she manifested all of it—without burning out. She opens up about what’s unfolded since her first appearance on the pod—where her honest coming out story sparked identity breakthroughs for countless listeners. This time, she unpacks how doing the TBM work helped her move through into a chapter of uplevels, radical authenticity, and major manifestations. Through aligned action, inner healing, and manifestation tools, Alix shares how she navigated the highs and lows of life as a creator—ultimately manifesting her dream home, her debut cookbook Scratch That, and deeper clarity on her purpose. Whether you're pursuing a creative dream, feeling stuck in a transition, or learning to trust your timing, Alix's story is a powerful reminder that true success comes from following what lights you up—even when it’s scary.  She talks about the sometimes uncomfortable process of upleveling, as everything you desire comes through, often by facing those fears of being able to hold it all. Learn how Alix is navigating it all–and get expanded that you can do the same!  Find the Complete Show Notes Here -> https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast [https://tobemagnetic.com/expanded-podcast?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=audio&utm_campaign=EP352]   Resources:  Join the Pathway Membership [https://tobemagnetic.com/the-pathway-membership?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=audio&utm_campaign=EP352] Reprogram your limiting beliefs and step into your most magnetic self!  The Pathway Membership gives you unlimited access to all of our manifestation workshops—including How to Manifest, Unblocking Your Inner Child, Shadow, Love, Money, Rock Bottoms, Ruts, and Energetic Updates —plus 70+ self-hypnosis tracks designed to unlock your full potential. 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Highlights

Alix Traeger returns to the podcast not just to celebrate her recent manifestations—but to reveal how they emerged from deep inner work, nervous system awareness, and a radical commitment to authenticity over approval.
06:13
Real success lies in small moments of impacting others, rather than flashy fame and monetary success
19:29
It took years to start and finish the cookbook as they wanted to infuse their energy and value into it
27:21
True value lies in one's intrinsic energy—not career, finances, or public perception
32:31
A hummingbird encounter reminded them to enjoy life and look up from the phone
46:10
The love invested in a home always pays off
54:30
She brainstormed and came up with 'Scratch That', emphasizing starting from scratch and moving forward after mistakes.
57:22
It's okay to fail—the skills learned in the kitchen can be applied to life
1:00:04
This cookbook is the pinnacle of my current career—I've achieved my childhood dream

Chapters

What happens when your dream house shows up—but only after you've healed your relationship with safety?
00:00
Why launching a cookbook feels like standing naked in public—and how courage grows in the quiet before the spotlight?
14:15
How do you untangle your worth from likes, sales, and audience size?
22:12
Can painting a wall really rewire your nervous system—and what does a hummingbird have to do with it?
30:00
When does a broken-down condo become a bridge—not just financially, but spiritually?
43:45
What if the right time for your big idea isn’t when you’re ready—but when you’ve finally stopped rushing?
51:31
How did 'Hot Mess' become 'Scratch That'—and why that pivot changed everything?
57:22
What does it feel like to hold your childhood dream in your hands—and already know it’s just the beginning?
1:00:04

Transcript

Lacy Phillips: Stay in the magic of life, Stay in that the universe is on your side and there to help you, but you need to call on it. You've gotten to this point. You've gotten so far. You have to show up. Jessica Gill: This is the time to show up. Lacy...