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Practical Tools for a Less Anxious Life - Donald Robertson - #1050

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Donald Robertson is a cognitive-behavioral psychotherapist, an author and an expert on ancient philosophy. Why are we so anxious in the safest time in human history? Our brains evolved for real danger, predators, hunger, survival, not notifications and de...

Highlights

In this episode, cognitive-behavioral psychotherapist and Stoicism expert Donald Robertson explores the paradox of rising anxiety in an era of unprecedented safety. He explains how our brains, evolved for immediate physical threats, misfire in response to modern stressors like notifications and deadlines. The conversation delves into the mechanics of anxiety, the effectiveness of various therapeutic approaches, and the surprising ancient roots of modern psychological techniques.
14:04
Peel back the label of anxiety to examine its actual components.
18:54
Good advice can become bad without nuance.
25:55
Avoidance is the worst coping strategy.
48:13
Relax into accepting anxiety symptoms rather than trying to eliminate them
55:53
Anger reduces people to objects.
1:06:11
Emotions are more cognitive than vague blobs
1:25:53
Self-help without real-world application is like boxing training without sparring.
1:29:18
CBT for anger has a 70% success rate
1:47:14
The right philosophy finds you over time.
1:52:27
Political division and the loss of civil disagreement

Chapters

How Anxiety Actually Works
00:00
Is Self-Help Actually Helpful?
15:40
Why Avoidance Makes Anxiety Worse
25:55
Useful Skills to Tackle Your Anxiety
39:22
Top Down vs Bottom Up: What’s the Best Approach?
48:47
Were the Stoics the Original Psychotherapists?
1:03:08
Why People Fear Exposure Therapy
1:11:14
Should We Prioritise Targeting Anger?
1:26:42
Why Donald Quit Psychodynamic Therapy
1:41:01
Where to Find Donald
1:52:24

Transcript

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