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The high-growth handbook: Molly Graham’s frameworks for leading through chaos, change, and scale

In this insightful conversation, Molly Graham draws on her extensive experience scaling organizations at some of the world’s most dynamic tech companies to share practical leadership frameworks that help individuals and teams thrive amid rapid change.
Molly Graham emphasizes the importance of letting go of control through her 'Give away your Legos' framework, explaining that clinging to familiar responsibilities stifles growth and leads to burnout. She advocates for embracing the J-curve model of career development—where short-term setbacks lead to long-term gains—over linear progression, urging professionals to take risks even when underqualified. The Waterline model helps leaders diagnose team issues by focusing first on structural and group dynamics rather than individual performance. Effective goal-setting, she notes, requires simplicity, clear ownership, and strategic trade-offs. Graham highlights that leading through scale demands emotional resilience, rational decision-making, and investing in high performers. She reflects on key lessons from leaders like Zuckerberg and Sandberg, underscoring that culture is shaped by actions, not slogans. Ultimately, her journey shifts from ambition to purpose, advocating for authenticity, curiosity, and building meaningful human connections in leadership.
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Giving away what you're good at is essential for growth in a scaling company.
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If an emotion lasts more than two weeks, it's worth addressing with someone.
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Holding on often leads to the worst version of oneself
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The most interesting careers are winding, and control is not the key; it's about trying and seeing what happens next.
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Fear of failure is a 'flashing green light' to take the risk
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Calculate your financial runway to make informed decisions about time off work
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Being a 'professional idiot' and asking dumb questions is a superpower for learning
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Most team problems (about 80%) are due to structural or dynamics issues like unclear roles.
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One goal should have one owner to ensure accountability and clarity.
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Firing people isn't enjoyable, but leaders should recognize the need to do it quickly
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Investing in high performers unlocks future company success
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About 80% of company culture comes from the founder's personality.
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Realized that building safe spaces for leaders is what I truly love
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What matters most are the people you work with and what you learn