“It’s interesting when you see the lights come back on for someone, no matter what they’re going through, whether that’s depression, or alcoholism, or drug addiction. Whatever they’re going through, when they go through a process and the lights come back on, it’s really really rewarding.” - Josey “The pain of changing has to be less than the pain of staying the same. Unfortunately we have high tolerances for emotional pain, and you often don’t realize how much pain you were sitting in until you’re on the other side of it” - Josey “Once you make your intentions clear and you kind of set boundaries, you have to stick to them.” - Josey “One of the biggest preconceived notions that people have about money and capitalism and business, is that it’s this zero sum game. They think if somebody else is winning then that means somebody else is losing, and that is not the case.” - Josey Today’s guest is a dear friend of Lacy & Max and the Co-Founder of Hugs CBD, Josey Orr. Josey opens up about his journey with addiction and sobriety, and his success with his current business venture. He also talks about what finally made him want to get sober, how he reconnected with his high school sweetheart (who is now his fiancé), and how to be upfront with your intentions and boundaries in relationships. Josey and Lacy also talk on some financial tips and things to know for people who are new to buying or using CBD. In This Episode We Talk About: * Some of the places Lacy is thinking about for the next retreat house * Finding our expanders in situations and people that don’t work out * Josey’s cultural upbringing and background * His mom’s sobriety journey and how it affected his childhood * How his mom’s sobriety coincided with his own addiction * Some of the factors that influenced Josey’s addiction * Josey’s addiction story and his own sobriety journey * The shame versus fear of missing out he experienced while he was in rehab the first time * The cycle that eventually led to his spiritual breaking point * His eventual surrender during his second stint in rehab where he decided to do the work they told him to * The hard work after rehab of learning how to exist in the world sober * Dating in sobriety (and in LA) and the evolution * Josey’s advice for people (especially women) who are caught in a cycle of not finding what you need and want in a relationship * The validity of putting feelings out there early and often * Josey and Katie’s relationship story * The importance of their years apart * How they fell back in love * The lessons he learned from living with Katie, even before they were dating * Their engagement story * His entrepreneurial endeavors since sobriety * Some of the financial resources Josey has read and used * Opening up different streams of revenue * Different ways people think about money * Conscious capitalism * Josey’s top three tips for people with limited expendable income * Our negative scripts around money * Starting with a goal and working backwards * Lessons learned from his entrepreneurial “failures” * How his CBD brand came about * Top things to know about buying and using CBD * Accessibility of their products * Most effective ways to consume CBD Resources: BLACK FRIDAY SALE * $18/month for 12 months on Pathway 2.0 - Find Supported Class in here! [https://www.howtomanifest.com/p/the-pathway] * If you’re already a Pathway Member, your previous payment plan will be canceled by our team and your new 12m commitment will begin at the lower price! * 50% off ala carte workshops with code BLACKFRIDAY50 [https://tobemagnetic.com/manifestation-workshops] * To Be Magnetic [https://tobemagnetic.com/] * Instagram: @tobemagnetic [https://www.instagram.com/tobemagnetic/] * Newsletter [https://tobemagnetic.com/subscribe] * The Pathway (use code JOURNEY for one month off the first year) [https://www.howtomanifest.com/p/the-pathway] * A la Carte Workshops JOURNEY for 10% off [https://tobemagnetic.com/manifestation-workshops] * DRE Challenge [https://tobemagnetic.com/dre-challenge] * The Forest Retreat House [https://theforestretreathouse.com/] * Instagram: @theforestretreathouse [https://www.instagram.com/theforestretreathouse/] * Book The Forest Retreat House for a Promo Price [https://www.vrbo.com/1690241?adultsCount=2&arrival=2019-11-06&departure=2019-11-09] 
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 #Where to Find Josey * Instagram @OrrJosey [https://www.instagram.com/orrjosey/] * HugsCBD [https://www.instagram.com/hugscbd/] * Website [https://bathbombs.hugscbd.com/] use code HOLIDAYHUGS for 35% OFF   HOW TO MANIFEST [https://tobemagnetic.com/buy-how-to-manifest-book]by Lacy Phillips  (with exercises by Jessica Gill) Available now!   The Expanded Podcast, from To Be Magnetic™ (TBM), is the leading manifestation podcast rooted in neuroscience, psychology, and energetics. Hosted by TBM’s Chief Content Officer Jessica Gill, with monthly appearances from founder Lacy Phillips, Expanded is where science and the mystical meet to help you manifest in the most grounded, practical, and life-changing way. At TBM, we’ve redefined manifestation through Neural Manifestation™—our proven, science-backed method developed with neuroscientist Dr. Tara Swart. This process helps you reprogram limiting beliefs at the subconscious level so you can create the life most aligned with your authenticity. Each week, we take you inside the TBM practice to help you expand your subconscious to believe what you desire is possible. Through expert interviews, thought leader conversations, TBM teachings, and real member success stories, you’ll learn how to:  – Rewire your subconscious mind and step into your worth  – Heal your inner child and integrate shadow work  – Set boundaries, strengthen intuition, and reclaim self-worth  – Manifest relationships, careers, abundance, and experiences that align with your true self With over than 40 million downloads and a global community in over 100 countries, Expanded has become the gold standard in manifestation content. Think of it as your weekly practice for expanding your mind, believing what you want is possible, and manifesting the life you’re meant to live. Past guests include leading voices such as Mel Robbins, Lewis Howes, Jenna Zoe, Martha Beck, Dr. Joe Dispenza, Dr. Gabor Maté, Mark Groves, and Brianna Wiest.   WHERE TO FIND US! * @tobemagnetic [https://www.instagram.com/tobemagnetic/?hl=en](IG) * @Lacyannephillips [https://www.instagram.com/lacyannephillips/] * Lacy Launched a Substack! - By Candlelight - Join Here [https://lacyphillips528961.substack.com/?fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAabGSOEfunNTeBL3eVfXrrdPxaFVb3w4Z7-URcYr4qmMbT7mcMrX8WitgyE_aem_FTazu5Wkvuh2oxgNyHeCmw?utm_source=podcast&utm_medium=audio&utm_campaign=EP356] * @Jessicaashleygill [https://www.instagram.com/jessicaashleygill/?hl=en] * @tobemagnetic [https://www.youtube.com/@tobemagnetic] (youtube) * @expandedpodcast [https://www.instagram.com/expandedpodcast/?hl=en]