‘Modern Love’: How to Keep Love Alive, With Rob Delaney of ‘Dying for Sex’
The Daily
2025/07/20
‘Modern Love’: How to Keep Love Alive, With Rob Delaney of ‘Dying for Sex’
‘Modern Love’: How to Keep Love Alive, With Rob Delaney of ‘Dying for Sex’

The Daily
2025/07/20
In this episode of Modern Love, actor and writer Rob Delaney delves into the emotional depth of his role in the FX series 'Dying for Sex,' discussing how vulnerability, connection, and authenticity shape both his personal life and his art. Drawing from his own experiences with recovery, grief, and long-term marriage, Delaney reflects on the importance of emotional openness and how it can lead to powerful, even humorous, human connections.
Rob Delaney explores the themes of intimacy and emotional exposure through his role in 'Dying for Sex,' a story about a woman seeking physical pleasure before her death and the unlikely bond she forms. He connects this to his own life, discussing how sobriety and loss have deepened his relationships. Delaney also reads a Modern Love essay about couples rediscovering each other through role-play, highlighting how novelty and focused attention can reinvigorate long-term partnerships. He emphasizes the importance of showing up fully in a relationship, drawing from his own journey of overcoming addiction and workaholism to prioritize love and emotional presence.
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Michelle Williams' portrayal of a woman with terminal cancer seeking pleasure
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The couple's act of pretending to be strangers reminded them they're still discovering each other
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Rob shares how he chose his marriage over his career to overcome workaholism and alcoholism