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Tessa Thompson on Finding What You Want (What You Really, Really Want)

Modern Love

2025/10/08
Modern Love

Modern Love

2025/10/08

Shownote

Tessa Thompson’s latest role is an infamously chaotic one: Hedda Gabler. Adapted from the classic play by Henrik Ibsen, “Hedda,” in select theaters Oct. 22, casts Thompson as a 1950s housewife who feels snubbed by an old lover and stifled in a new marriage...

Highlights

Tessa Thompson steps into the shoes of a complex, conflicted woman from another era, bringing new life to a character shaped by repression and rage. In this episode, she unpacks the emotional depth of Hedda Gabler—not just as a role, but as a reflection of timeless struggles women face in defining their own identities within restrictive relationships and societal expectations.
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Transcript

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