4: The Truth About Life After College (Howard, Fraternities & Chasing Your Passion) | Miles Thomas
Beyond Ordinary Podcast
Mar 24
4: The Truth About Life After College (Howard, Fraternities & Chasing Your Passion) | Miles Thomas
4: The Truth About Life After College (Howard, Fraternities & Chasing Your Passion) | Miles Thomas

Beyond Ordinary Podcast
Mar 24
In this episode, the host sits down with Miles Thomas, an artist, entrepreneur, and founder of Rebel Events, to discuss his journey from throwing parties at Howard University to navigating life after graduation. They explore the business of party promotion, the importance of optics, and the challenges of balancing passion with a career.
Miles Thomas shares how Rebel Events started with a financially unsuccessful party but evolved into a post-grad nightlife movement by mentoring younger members and expanding to new cities. He emphasizes the power of optics in promotion, the value of small, dedicated teams, and the pitfalls of collaboration. The conversation also covers his choice of Howard University, influenced by family and a sense of belonging, and his post-grad struggle to balance music with a stable career. He discusses the trap of chasing viral content, advocating for authenticity and patience, and shares the story behind his song 'Long Distance.' Miles reflects on Greek life, noting that fraternity membership amplifies existing traits rather than changing them, and stresses the importance of self-love and knowing when to step back from college scenes. The episode concludes with advice for entrepreneurs to stay true to their passions while being realistic about their paths.
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Our first party was a social success but a financial loss.
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Mentoring younger members ensured Rebel Events' longevity.
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Money and business can change relationships.
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Adding people disrupts established group chemistry.
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Optics are crucial for entering new markets.
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Perception can make or break a promoter's reputation.
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My mother was a big advocate for HBCUs.
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Success requires full commitment and time.
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Not everyone is comfortable with public attention.
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True passion brings peace, not just gratification.
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He realized he didn't even like his own music and made a shift to being more authentic.
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Authenticity matters more than chasing viral moments.
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People enter your life for a reason, season, or lifetime.
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Don't abandon your passions entirely.
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Friendships evolve through different life seasons.
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True friendship is tested in real situations.
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Letters don't change who you are; they amplify your existing traits.
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Self-love is essential before loving others.