Become a better communicator: Specific frameworks to improve your clarity, influence, and impact | Wes Kao (coach, entrepreneur, advisor)
Become a better communicator: Specific frameworks to improve your clarity, influence, and impact | Wes Kao (coach, entrepreneur, advisor)
Become a better communicator: Specific frameworks to improve your clarity, influence, and impact | Wes Kao (coach, entrepreneur, advisor)
In this episode, Wes Kao, an entrepreneur and coach specializing in executive communication, shares actionable strategies to enhance communication skills. Her expertise stems from co-founding Maven and creating the altMBA with Seth Godin. Wes emphasizes practical techniques for persuasive communication, concise messaging, and building influence through clear expression.
Wes Kao dives deep into the art of effective communication, offering frameworks like MOO (Most Obvious Objection) to anticipate resistance and build stronger pitches. She stresses the importance of selling ideas before logistics, ensuring clarity by signposting, and staying concise without losing meaning. Confidence in communication requires balancing evidence with conviction while adapting to your audience's goals. Managing up effectively involves sharing strategic perspectives that ease leadership burdens. Constructive feedback should focus on desired outcomes rather than personal emotions. Delegation is enhanced through the CEDAF framework, which ensures understanding and alignment. Additionally, Wes advocates leveraging AI tools like Claude for brainstorming and maintaining swipe files to collect communication inspiration. Throughout the episode, she emphasizes continuous practice and reflection as keys to improving one’s communication style.
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Ask yourself how to improve communication when not getting the desired reaction.
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She raised company writing quality by 2x.
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When not getting the desired reaction, reflect on your communication rather than blaming others.
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Always include a concise selling point at the start of discussions.
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Effective conciseness is not about word count but economy of words.
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Two books, On Writing Well by William Zinsser and Stein on Writing by Sol Stein, help write more effectively.
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Signposting uses words and phrases to guide readers effectively.
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Observe reaction speed and enthusiasm to improve communication.
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Spending more time on communication can lead to better outcomes
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Overconfident people state hypotheses as fact, while underconfident ones undermine their recommendations.
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Thinking ahead about the most obvious objection can help strengthen a pitch.
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Probing and validating are useful techniques in high-stakes conversations.
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Start with MOO and frame conversations up front
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Sharing your point of view with evidence makes managers' lives easier.
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Vent frustrations before giving feedback to prevent snapping.
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The CEDAF framework helps ensure delegates have all they need and understand the importance of their tasks.
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Swipe files can include quotes, screenshots, and strategy docs, analyzed for effectiveness.
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Wes uses Claude for several hours daily to refine her work output.
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Decide based on excitement, fit, and ROI; focus on core competencies.
