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Ep. 63 - Holly Madison on Manifesting her Relationships and Career - The Process

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“It’s weird because when I look back on people that I might consider the biggest villains in my life, they’re also the biggest expanders.” - Holly Today’s guest is former Playboy Bunny Holly Madison. In this episode, she joins Lacy to talk about her experience manifesting in love and career. She also speaks to her transformation during the years she was at the mansion, as well as her expansive experiences after leaving. The two also discuss finding self-worth, stepping into authenticity, and establishing boundaries for yourself. In This Episode We Talk About: * Updates on Lacy’s health * Reinforcing mindfulness * Holly’s cultural background and upbringing in rural Alaska * The culture shock moving to Oregon and how that shocked her into inauthenticity * Holly’s introduction to Lacy’s work and where she was in life when she started * How she got through the work in times when she wasn’t finding expanders * Holly’s Astrology chart and human design * Aligning with your authenticity while you’re manifesting * Her manifestation journey with her current relationship * Things she learned and used to grow from the time at the mansion and being in Vegas * Being authentic and sticking to your boundaries * How having children can affect your magnetism and manifestation * The manifestation and downloads around the birth of her children * How Holly receives her pings * Spiritual practices and how they have opened up her gifts * Her work with the reparent and shadow workshops * Working through shadow words * Habits and traits around communication and clear boundaries * Magic dark versus being in a rut * How Holly co-parents * Trolls as an indication of shadow * The formative years for Holly at the mansion and with Hugh * How signs show up in depression for Holly * Finding self-worth in the mansion * Empowering yourself with finances * Budget tips * Lessons learned from the free road map * What she is doing now to step into her worth * Tips for people doing the work: don’t slack on the journaling * How Holly finds time to do the work #Resources * To Be Magnetic [https://tobemagnetic.com/] * Instagram: @tobemagnetic [https://www.instagram.com/tobemagnetic/] * Newsletter [https://tobemagnetic.com/subscribe] * The Forest Retreat House [https://theforestretreathouse.com] * Instagram: @theforestretreathouse [https://www.instagram.com/theforestretreathouse/] * Book The Forest Retreat House for a Promo Price [https://www.vrbo.com/1690241?adultsCount=2&arrival=2019-11-06&departure=2019-11-09] * Lacy Phillips Live: The Manifestation Tour [https://love.consciouscityguide.com/to-be-magnetic] * The Pathway [https://www.howtomanifest.com/p/the-pathway] - Find the FREE Roadmap in here! * A la Carte Workshops [https://tobemagnetic.com/manifestation-workshops] Healing * Brave Roadmap [https://tobemagnetic.com/monthlyroadmaps/2019/10/2/the-brave-roadmap?rq=roadmap] * Karen Hurd Protocol [http://www.karenhurd.com/womens-health-product.html] * Unique Hammond [https://www.youregreat.com/] * Ashley Neese [https://www.instagram.com/ashley_neese/?hl=en] Osea * Website [https://oseamalibu.com/] - tobemagnetic $10 off $50 or more * Instagram [https://www.instagram.com/oseamalibu/] * Sea Vitamin Boost-Travel Size [https://oseamalibu.com/collections/travel-sizes/products/sea-vitamin-boost-travel-size] * Hyaluronic Sea Serum [https://oseamalibu.com/collections/skin-brightening/products/hyaluronic-sea-serum] * Brightening Serum [https://oseamalibu.com/collections/skin-brightening/products/brightening-serum] Speaking Tour Gift Bags * Coyuchi - 30% Off Orders of $200+ CODE: EXPANDED [https://www.coyuchi.com/] * Ursa Major - $10 Off Orders of $50+ CODE: CONSCIOUSSF10 [https://www.ursamajorvt.com/collections/shop-all] * Everyday Oil - 20% Off Your Order CODE: magneticeveryday [https://everydayoil.com/] * Sun Potion Shea Butter - $20 Off Orders of $100+ CODE: TBM [https://www.sunpotion.com/products/wildcrafted-shea-butter-unrefined] * Nucifera The Balm - 20% Off + Free 1oz Balm CODE: MAGNETIC [https://www.nuciferabody.com/products/the-balm-4oz] In the episode * Smart Women Finish Rich by David Bach [https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0525573046/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=9325&creativeASIN=0525573046&linkCode=as2&tag=freeandnati0b-20&linkId=b46a864da2cb4f7811ba9e2ed9fb0085] #Where to find Holly * Instagram: @hollymadison [https://www.instagram.com/hollymadison/?hl=en] * Down the Rabbit Hole [https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/0062372114/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=9325&creativeASIN=0062372114&linkCode=as2&tag=freeandnati0b-20&linkId=9ff75ea245c77f1d93f8f1701198be93] * The Vegas Diaries [https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B01DMTUE74/ref=as_li_tl?ie=UTF8&camp=1789&creative=9325&creativeASIN=B01DMTUE74&linkCode=as2&tag=freeandnati0b-20&linkId=892377bb7885b764f05af21ccdbbe6ac]   HOW TO MANIFEST [https://tobemagnetic.com/buy-how-to-manifest-book]by Lacy Phillips  (with exercises by Jessica Gill) Available now!   The Expanded Podcast, from To Be Magnetic™ (TBM), is the leading manifestation podcast rooted in neuroscience, psychology, and energetics. Hosted by TBM’s Chief Content Officer Jessica Gill, with monthly appearances from founder Lacy Phillips, Expanded is where science and the mystical meet to help you manifest in the most grounded, practical, and life-changing way. At TBM, we’ve redefined manifestation through Neural Manifestation™—our proven, science-backed method developed with neuroscientist Dr. Tara Swart. This process helps you reprogram limiting beliefs at the subconscious level so you can create the life most aligned with your authenticity. Each week, we take you inside the TBM practice to help you expand your subconscious to believe what you desire is possible. 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Highlights

In this episode, Holly Madison joins Lacy to share her personal journey of transformation, from her time at the Playboy Mansion to her current life as a mother and manifestor. They explore how she used manifestation to navigate major life changes, including her career, relationships, and self-worth, while also discussing the challenges of staying authentic and setting boundaries.
00:03
Facing fears builds magnetism.
09:25
Manifestation is about energetic projection from the subconscious.
17:59
Culture shock pushed her into inauthenticity.
30:43
Villains often become expanders.
33:25
She compromised her boundaries in relationships and learned to stick to them.
38:53
Trusting intuition is key to manifestation.
1:05:31
Beauty doesn't guarantee happiness.
1:10:17
Empower yourself financially.

Chapters

Lacy's Health Update: The Brave Roadmap and Facing Fears
00:00
Childhood Role Models and the Path to True Healing
06:31
Introducing Holly Madison: From Alaska to the Mansion
15:15
Manifesting a Partner in Four Months: Holly's Authentic Approach
20:47
Learning Boundaries and Manifesting Career Dreams
33:25
Motherhood, Intuition, and Feeling Stuck for Three Years
38:53
Shadow Words, Co-Parenting, and the Leap of Faith from the Mansion
47:46
Financial Empowerment: Budgeting, Investing, and DIY Beauty
1:10:17

Transcript

Holly Madison: But it's like I always say to people, like if Michael Jackson can go bankrupt. It's like everybody needs to be on a budget. I don't care who you are. So now I'm on a budget. Lacy Phillips: Welcome to The Expanded Podcast with your host, Lac...