From gaming addiction to healthy gamer: Dr K's story
All In The Mind
14 HOURS AGO
From gaming addiction to healthy gamer: Dr K's story
From gaming addiction to healthy gamer: Dr K's story

All In The Mind
14 HOURS AGO
In this episode, psychiatrist Dr. Alok Kanojia, known as Dr. K, shares his personal battle with gaming addiction and how it shaped his career helping others. He discusses the psychology behind why games are so compelling, offers practical advice for parents concerned about their children's habits, and explores when gaming crosses the line into a disorder.
Dr. K recounts his own severe addiction, playing up to 20 hours a day and failing out of college, before finding help through meditation in an ashram. He explains that games are addictive because they artificially fulfill deep psychological needs like mastery, connection, and identity. For parents, he advises first assessing if gaming is truly causing problems, then shifting from imposing restrictions to understanding the underlying needs driving the behavior. He recommends supporting real-world goals and adopting a curious, non-confrontational stance, while avoiding taking on too much responsibility so the child maintains accountability. Dr. K also distinguishes gaming from social media addiction, highlights the scarcity of public gaming disorder clinics in Australia, and notes that gaming can be beneficial, citing studies showing gamers have higher fluid IQ. He concludes by suggesting parents play games with their kids to learn about them and build connection.
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Gaming soothes the pain of a life falling behind.
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Games artificially satisfy psychological needs like mastery and connection.
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Gaming becomes a problem when it's used to manage anxiety or numb oneself.