Ep. 323 - How To Build Self-Worth And Deal With The Narcissist In Your Life
EXPANDED Podcast by To Be Magnetic™
2024/10/04
Ep. 323 - How To Build Self-Worth And Deal With The Narcissist In Your Life
Ep. 323 - How To Build Self-Worth And Deal With The Narcissist In Your Life
EXPANDED Podcast by To Be Magnetic™
2024/10/04
In this insightful episode, psychotherapist and narcissistic abuse recovery expert Hannah Alderete joins host Jessica Gill to unpack the clinical reality of narcissism—not as a casual label, but as a complex personality disorder rooted in early relational trauma and fragile self-structure.
Hannah clarifies that pathological narcissism is defined by chronic lack of empathy, projection, external validation dependence, and viewing others' success as threatening—stemming from genetic, cultural, or attachment-related vulnerabilities. She distinguishes covert narcissism (weaponizing guilt and victimhood) from overt forms, stressing that both erode relational safety. For survivors—especially adult children of narcissistic parents—the aftermath often includes chronic shame, people-pleasing, insecure attachment, and diminished self-trust. The episode emphasizes boundary-setting as non-negotiable self-preservation, introducing tools like gray rocking to disengage without feeding manipulation. Healing centers on somatic awareness, reclaiming healthy anger as a source of power, reparenting the inner child, and rebuilding internal validation. Crucially, recovery isn’t about changing the narcissist but restoring one’s sense of agency, authenticity, and embodied self-worth through evidence-informed, compassionate practice.
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Hannah grew up in an army family with a dad who had PTSD, which made her empathetic
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People-pleasing began as a childhood survival strategy with narcissistic parents but becomes self-detrimental in adulthood
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Gray rocking and yellow rocking are effective, low-reactivity boundary tools to deny narcissistic supply