You 2.0: How to Get Out of a Rut
Hidden Brain
Jan 12
You 2.0: How to Get Out of a Rut
You 2.0: How to Get Out of a Rut

Hidden Brain
Jan 12
Shownote
Shownote
There are times in life when the challenges we face feel insurmountable. Authors
succumb to writer’s block. Athletes and artists hit a plateau. People of a
certain age fall into a midlife crisis. These are all different ways of saying:
I’m stuck. This week, in a favorite conversation from 2023, psychologist Adam
Alter [https://www.stern.nyu.edu/faculty/bio/adam-alter] shares his research on
why we all get stuck at various points in our lives, and how to break free.
Then, psychologist George Bonanno [https://www.tc.columbia.edu/faculty/gab38/]
answers your questions about trauma and resilience.
In this episode, you'll learn:
*Why the beginning and the end of a project is often more manageable than the
midway point.
*Techniques that can help you to get through the "plateau" phase of a project or
goal.
*How to break down daunting endeavors into smaller, more manageable pieces.
*Why perfectionism is so destructive to creativity, and how we can avoid this
mental trap.
*Why it's difficult for us to see other people's "stuckness."
*The relationship between being prolific and being successful.
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Highlights
Highlights
We all encounter moments when progress halts and motivation wanes—when, despite our best efforts, we feel trapped in place. This episode explores the psychology behind why people get stuck in their creative pursuits, personal goals, or emotional journeys, and what science reveals about moving forward.
Chapters
Chapters
When Success Starts to Stall: The Universal Feeling of Being Stuck
00:00Why the Middle of Any Journey Feels the Hardest
06:28How Small Wins Keep You Moving Forward
11:48Is Perfectionism Sabotaging Your Progress?
17:44Why Social Media Makes You Feel Behind
23:36Why Trying Over and Over Actually Works
31:56What Happens When You Strip a Problem Down to Its Core?
37:47Can Taking Any Action Reveal What You Truly Want?
44:13Do We Grieve in Stages—or Is That a Myth?
49:44How Trauma Rewires the Mind—and How We Heal
1:10:09What Resilience Really Looks Like in the Face of Loss
1:36:46Transcript
Transcript
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