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You 2.0: How to Get Out of a Rut

Hidden Brain

2 DAYS AGO
Hidden Brain

Hidden Brain

2 DAYS AGO
We all encounter moments when progress halts and motivation wanes—when, despite our best efforts, we feel trapped in place. This episode explores the psychology behind why people get stuck in their creative pursuits, personal goals, or emotional journeys, and what science reveals about moving forward.
The experience of being stuck is a common yet deeply personal struggle, often intensified by perfectionism, isolation, and misleading social narratives. Motivation tends to follow a U-shaped curve, dipping in the middle of long projects when feedback fades and progress feels invisible. Breaking big goals into smaller, manageable milestones can restore momentum. Perfectionism fuels stagnation by linking self-worth to outcomes, while social media distorts reality, making others’ success seem constant and effortless. Action—even unrelated action—generates clarity and psychological movement. In grief and trauma, resilience is more common than pathology, and healing doesn’t follow fixed stages. Chronic trauma overwhelms natural coping systems, but normalcy, storytelling, and support foster recovery. Ultimately, persistence, reframing challenges, and embracing nonlinear progress are key to breaking free.
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03:27
George R.R. Martin has not finished 'Winds of Winter' despite years of effort.
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09:20
People lose motivation in the middle of long projects due to lack of feedback
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14:22
Constraining oneself can lead to clarity and inspiration.
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20:33
People feel stuck because they believe they are alone in their struggles, but everyone is stuck in at least one area of life.
26:16
26:16
Brie Larson faced repeated rejections before succeeding, showing failure tolerance is key to success.
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31:56
Trying more increases the likelihood of success as one learns from attempts.
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41:13
Action reveals what you truly want, even if the first step is in the wrong direction.
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47:01
Reaching an age ending in 9 prompts deep life reflection
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53:25
The five-stage grief model is prescriptive but not supported by research and often causes more harm than good.
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1:30:42
Resilience can be practiced through normalcy and compartmentalization