who’s in the wrong? advice session
anything goes with emma chamberlain
2025/12/21
who’s in the wrong? advice session
who’s in the wrong? advice session

anything goes with emma chamberlain
2025/12/21
In this episode, Emma Chamberlain dives into the messy, emotional world of friendships where loyalties blur, feelings clash, and boundaries get tested. She tackles real listener dilemmas that explore the gray areas of loyalty, self-worth, and connection—when it’s hard to know if you're overreacting or standing your ground.
Emma explores complex friendship dynamics where emotions run high and blame isn’t clear-cut. She discusses how to handle friends who stay connected with someone who caused harm, emphasizing personal reflection and emotional honesty. The conversation expands to include coping with friends who unintentionally overshadow others, repeat harmful patterns, or prioritize romance over platonic bonds. Emma highlights the importance of self-awareness, setting boundaries, and recognizing when a friendship can be repaired or requires distance. In cases of secret romances—like dating a best friend's sibling—she advocates for open dialogue among all parties. Ultimately, she encourages preserving meaningful long-term friendships while also growing one’s circle to meet unmet emotional needs, framing maturity not as cutting ties but as navigating complexity with care.
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You don't need to just get over it — your feelings are valid.
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Resenting a friend for being radiantly social is unfair—they're not dimming you on purpose
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Removing yourself may be the only way to prompt change in a friend's behavior
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No one is wrong in this situation—it's just an unfortunate complication between close relationships.
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Prioritize deeper, longer-standing friendships over new romantic interests.